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Below, you will find several ways you can incorporate your family into the Nativity Fast this year. The calendar print-outs are provided as a count down to Christmas and as a way for your family to follow along with the lives of the saints during this time, as well as, provides an opportunity for your family to plan which services you will be attending this year. (You can find round, Christmas stickers at Hobby Lobby<\/a> that fit perfectly over each day as you countdown to Christmas.)<\/p>\n With little ones, they understand the concept of “next” before they understand dates. (Think about how often your little one has asked, “Who’s birthday is next?” or “Which holiday is next?”) The calendar print-out provides an opportunity for multiple ages in your home to follow along. Those who are little can ask, “Which saint will we learn about next?” While the older ones learn the dates for when these saints are commemorated, as well as, the date of one of our major feast days – the Nativity of Christ on December 25th.<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ admin_label=”Section” _builder_version=”3.22″ background_color=”#183439″ transparent_background=”off” make_fullwidth=”off” use_custom_width=”off” width_unit=”on”][et_pb_row admin_label=”Row” _builder_version=”3.25″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” column_structure=”1_4,3_4″][et_pb_column type=”1_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_image src=”http:\/\/illumination-learning.com\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/worship.png” align=”center” align_tablet=”center” align_last_edited=”on|desktop” admin_label=”Worship Image” _builder_version=”3.23″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid” animation=”off” sticky=”off” always_center_on_mobile=”on”] [\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text” _builder_version=”4.4.8″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” background_layout=”dark” hover_enabled=”0″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]<\/p>\n On November 14th, we have the feast of St. Philip. In Fr. Thomas Hopko\u2019s podcast on The Nativity Fast<\/a><\/em>, he explains that St. Philip invites us in Scripture to \u201ccome and see.\u201d Fr. Hopko goes on to say that first we have to come to the services, then we need to come desiring to see.<\/p>\n On the following day, November 15th, we begin the Nativity Fast. As we prepare for the upcoming fast, make a point to discuss with everyone in your family about attending additional services this fast. You can print out one of the calendars below, mark when your family will be going to church, and then hang it on your refrigerator. You can also ask everyone with a phone in your family to\u00a0mark the dates on your phone\u2019s calendar \u2013 and set reminders before everyone disperses. If your family uses a calendar on the wall, label the date and time you plan to attend services as well.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_toggle title=”Which services will our family attend during the Nativity Fast?” admin_label=”Services Toggle” _builder_version=”4.4.8″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” hover_enabled=”0″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]<\/p>\n Check your parish’s calendar or bulletins for services and times. Many parishes will have a service on the following days:<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”Why should we go to liturgy on Thanksgiving?” admin_label=”Toggle” _builder_version=”4.4.8″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” hover_enabled=”0″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]”The life of the Church is not readily distilled into ethical principles, but it undoubtedly fosters a certain\u00a0ethos\u00a0<\/em>– an atmosphere or mode of living. If we believe that we become our true selves only when we give thanks to God, it is not surprising that the idea of a ‘eucharistic ethos’ should loom large. Contemporary Orthodox often speak of a ‘eucharistic and ascetic ethos’ as an antidote to a way of living that is environmentally destructive. The two epithets illuminate each other. The ascetic aspect indicates that we walk lightly on the earth as we learn to distinguish need from greed. But the eucharistic aspect shows how this differs from a joyless puritanism: the emphasis is not on the\u00a0giving up<\/em>, but on the\u00a0giving thanks<\/em>. A eucharistic ethos starts from the recognition of everything created as ‘God’s own,’ so that all our use of the world is a cause for thankfulness to him.” – Elizabeth Theokritoff, Living in God’s Creation: Orthodox Perspectives on Ecology<\/em><\/p>\n Even though the author was speaking to the topic of what many term, “green living,” the topic of thankfulness<\/strong> very much applies to all aspects of our life. In the United States, we dedicate an entire day to being thankful to God for our bountiful harvest. It seems only appropriate that we gather together at church before gathering together for a large meal which celebrates being thankful. [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_3″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_image src=”http:\/\/illumination-learning.com\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/IMG_1663.jpg” align=”center” align_tablet=”center” align_last_edited=”on|desktop” admin_label=”Lighting Candle Image” _builder_version=”3.23″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid” animation=”off” sticky=”off” always_center_on_mobile=”on”] [\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row admin_label=”Row” _builder_version=”3.25″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_divider color=”#b5b5b5″ disabled_on=”on|on|off” admin_label=”Divider” _builder_version=”3.2″ hide_on_mobile=”on”] [\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text” _builder_version=”3.27.4″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]<\/p>\n As a general rule, children like to be in church, and this instinctive attraction to and interest in church services is the foundation on which we must build our religious education. When parents worry that the children will get tired because services are long, they usually subconsciously express their concern not for their children, but for themselves.\u00a0Children penetrate more easily than adults into the world of ritual, into liturgical symbolism. The experience of the “Holy,” of the “mysterious\u00a0<\/em>tremendum” which is at the root of all religion – the feeling of an encounter with Someone who is beyond daily life – is more accessible to children than it is to us. “Unless you turn and become like children” (Matt. 18:3): these words apply to the receptivity, the open-mindedness, the naturalness which we lose when we grow out of childhood. How many men have devoted their lives to the service of God and\u00a0consecrated themselves to the Church because, from their very childhood, they have treasured their love for the house of God and the joy of liturgical experience. Therefore, the first duty of parents and educators is to “Let the children come…and do not hinder them” (Matt. 19:14) from attending Church.<\/strong> It is in church that children must hear the word “God” for the first time. In a classroom it is difficult to understand, it remains abstract; but in church it is “in its own element.” In our childhood we have the capacity to understand, not intellectually, but with our\u00a0whole being, that there is no greater joy on earth than to be in church, to participate in church services, to breathe the fragrance of the Kingdom of Heaven, which is “joy and peace in the Holy Spirit” (Rom. 14:17).\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_divider color=”#b5b5b5″ disabled_on=”on|on|off” admin_label=”Divider” _builder_version=”3.2″ hide_on_mobile=”on”] [\/et_pb_divider][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row admin_label=”Row” _builder_version=”3.25″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” column_structure=”1_2,1_2″][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_button 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background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” column_structure=”1_4,3_4″][et_pb_column type=”1_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_image src=”http:\/\/illumination-learning.com\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/teaching.png” align=”center” align_tablet=”center” align_last_edited=”on|desktop” admin_label=”Teaching Image” _builder_version=”3.23″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid” animation=”off” sticky=”off” always_center_on_mobile=”on”] [\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text” _builder_version=”4.4.8″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” background_layout=”dark” hover_enabled=”0″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]<\/p>\n The Church, in all of her wisdom, understands that we learn through all five of our senses. We are invited to participate in the Divine Liturgy not just through one or two of our senses – but by engaging every single one of our senses!<\/p>\n When we strive to expand our children’s knowledge about our Orthodox Christian faith, it’s important to incorporate as many of their senses as possible in the lesson, whenever possible.<\/p>\n There are several traditions that can be used to teach our children about the Nativity Fast, the saints we commemorate during this time, as well as the Nativity of Christ.<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_toggle title=”Learning is for adults too!” admin_label=”Hopko Resources Toggle” _builder_version=”4.4.8″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” hover_enabled=”0″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]<\/p>\n Learning happens over the course of a lifetime. Let’s remember to set the example for our children of what is truly important in our lives and continue striving to learn more about our faith with each new season and each new year.<\/p>\n I’ve found that the best time for me to listen to these podcasts is while I’m making dinner in the evenings. I use a bluetooth speaker for my phone and play the podcast through the Ancient Faith Radio app.\u00a0<\/p>\n When is the best time for you to listen to a podcast? – During your morning and evening drive, while you’re taking a shower, while you’re waiting for kids at extracurricular activities?<\/p>\n Fr. Thomas Hopko has some great resources for the Nativity Fast:<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”Learning About Saints & Christmas:” admin_label=”Toggle” _builder_version=”4.4.8″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” hover_enabled=”0″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]There are an abundance of books and resources available for this holiday season. Browse and find what will work best for your family:<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ admin_label=”Section” _builder_version=”3.22″][et_pb_row admin_label=”Row” _builder_version=”4.4.8″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” hover_enabled=”0″ column_structure=”2_5,3_5″][et_pb_column type=”2_5″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_image src=”http:\/\/illumination-learning.com\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Nativity_Victor_of_Crete_wikimediacommons.png” show_in_lightbox=”on” align=”center” align_tablet=”center” align_last_edited=”on|desktop” admin_label=”Saint Nicholas Image” _builder_version=”4.4.8″ hover_enabled=”0″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid” animation=”off” sticky=”off” always_center_on_mobile=”on” title_text=”Nativity_(Victor_of_Crete)_wikimediacommons”] [\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text” _builder_version=”4.4.8″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” hover_enabled=”0″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]<\/p>\n We can teach our children how to read iconography by reading the Gospels alongside the icons of the life, parables, and miracles of Christ.<\/p>\n During the Nativity Fast, find one or more icons of the Nativity of Christ online or in your home and place the icon before your child(ren). Then begin reading Matthew 1:18-25, Matthew 2:1-12, and Luke 2:1-20. Afterwards, let your children summarize the story to you as they look at the icon. This will teach them about the feast day, help them learn how to read icons – and whenever we are asked to recall, organize, and articulate what we’ve learned, we are much more likely to remember the content long term.<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ admin_label=”Section” _builder_version=”3.22″ background_color=”#183439″ transparent_background=”off” make_fullwidth=”off” use_custom_width=”off” width_unit=”on”][et_pb_row admin_label=”Row” _builder_version=”3.25″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” column_structure=”1_4,3_4″][et_pb_column type=”1_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_image src=”http:\/\/illumination-learning.com\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/praxis.png” align=”center” align_tablet=”center” align_last_edited=”on|desktop” admin_label=”Praxis Image” _builder_version=”3.23″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid” animation=”off” sticky=”off” always_center_on_mobile=”on”] [\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_4″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text” _builder_version=”4.4.8″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” background_layout=”dark” hover_enabled=”0″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]<\/p>\n Praxis is an integral part of teaching our children about their faith. It is our active participation in living our Orthodox Christian faith. It is the difference between knowing we should fast and actually doing it. It is the difference between knowing we should pray and actually doing it. It is the difference between knowing we should help those in need and actually doing it.<\/p>\n The lives of the saints are not simply there for us to oooh and ahhh over. They guide us in ways that we can emulate and grow closer to God – because we are all called to be saints.<\/p>\n We should read the lives of the saints to our children often, but we should also always talk about how we could use them as an example in our lives today.<\/p>\n For example: (Click on the box below!)<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_toggle title=”How do we emulate the saints during the Nativity Fast?” admin_label=”Praxis Toggle” _builder_version=”4.4.8″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” hover_enabled=”0″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]<\/p>\n It is so important for us to teach our children not only about<\/em> the lives of the saints and Christ but also how to emulate<\/em> them.<\/p>\n Saint Herman<\/strong> cared and nurtured an entire village during an epidemic illness.<\/p>\n Saint Nicholas<\/strong> is infamously known for tossing bags of money through a window which allowed three poor girls to get married. It’s important to put into context exactly what Saint Nicholas did for these girls. At that time, girls could not get jobs and own property like we can today. If these girls didn’t have money for a dowry, then when their dad died, they were going to be homeless and forced to turn to prostitution to survive. Saint Nicholas provided a means for these girls to get married – to have food to eat, a home to live in, clothes to wear, and the love of their husband and future children. It’s always nice to give special gifts to our friends and family – but this is not the example that Saint Nicholas gave to us.<\/p>\n What did Saint Nicholas teach us?<\/strong> He taught us to attempt to give anonymously, but…even he got caught, so being anonymous is not always possible. The important thing is that we’re not seeking to be thanked for our gift. He also taught us to help in a way that makes a difference in the life of the person.<\/p>\n\n
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Fr. Alexander Schmemann, Liturgy and Life: Christian Development Through Liturgical Experience<\/em>:<\/h5>\n
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Bring them a meal, a gift, clean their home, take them grocery shopping, sit on the couch and listen to them tell stories over a cup of coffee.<\/li>\n
Bring drinks to the person who is sick, learn how to make soup, learn how to wash a load of laundry when a baby or toddler throws up on everything.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n
If you don’t know, you can always talk to your parish priest in private. Ask him if there is someone you could help and what they need. Maybe someone needs help paying their electric bill. Maybe someone needs money for groceries. Pass the money or gift card to them through your priest and tell him that you would prefer to remain anonymous. If you know a person or family that needs help paying for something and you know where they live – you could mail them a gift card, you could leave an anonymous package on their doorstep, you could give it to one of their children as they are walking out to their car so the parents can’t refuse the gift.<\/li>\n
Do they need some free babysitting, do they need help paying some bills, do they need some groceries, do they need someone to listen to them?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n